We have an issue at home...one that is far from unique. The preschool that our older son goes to, like many other preschools, has a scheduled "rest time." After lunch, all the kids take to the mats with their blankets and "lovies," the lights are dimmed and everyone rests. Will actually falls asleep during this time, almost every day. The problem is, Will doesn't need the nap. It's a surefire guarantee that he won't be tired at all at bedtime, and if he goes to bed at 8-8:30ish, he will come out several times saying he is not tired. Or worse, playing in his room and having a grand ol' time until after WE are in bed as well. Then in the morning he is not well-rested at all and Mr. Crankypants has come to visit our home. Then he NEEDS the next day's nap. It's quite the cycle.
So we tried something--we moved bedtime back to 9pm. And interestingly enough, it's helped. But...BUT! That takes away a precious hour of Mom and Dad's quiet time. Knitting, watching hockey, etc etc etc. So the last hour of the evening is quiet time for everyone. Usually I'm knitting in my chair, and Brian's watching a show on the Discovery Channel like "How it's Made" or something on the Food Network, or hockey. . Will's taken an interest in the Food Network, and will sit quietly and ask questions about the shows. This is to our great delight--being foodies ourselves! It's a good thing--putting things on the TV that aren't all cartoons or animated educational kidstuff. Right now we're all enjoying the show "Chopped." It's where four chefs compete in appetizers, entree and dessert categories. Each chef is given a basket of ingredients that must show up in their finished dishes and are judged at the end of the round. All four compete in "appetizers" and one gets chopped from the competition in each round. The one at the end is crowned champion and the prize is $10,000.
One of the things I like best about this show is that it gets us to consider different ingredients in our cooking, and putting things that don't traditionally go together, or using ingredients in different ways. It also gets Will looking at different foods and not judging them for what they look like, and trying different things. For example, he never would have put his cereal with fruit. Lately he's been asking for "salad for breakfast." His salad consists of cheerios, blueberries and craisins mixed in the same bowl, with shredded toast topping. I asked if he needed a spoon, and he said "No Mom, it's more of a hand salad." The fact that he's willing to eat all of that together, I have "Chopped" to thank. And who knew that a pushed-back bedtime could bring us closer together? :)